Abortion
I am pro-life. Even if I was raped and ended up pregnant I'd still have the baby. I'd put it up for adoption but I don't believe a child should be denied life because of the father or because it was a mistake. Adoption is so easy and it may give a couple who couldn't have children the baby they always wanted. I don't believe it should be our decision that a baby should die just because we or someone else made a mistake.
I am not absolute in this, say a 13 year old girl got pregnant and she'd die or have severe complications if she carried the baby to full term or if your own life is in danger if you had this baby. That's a different story. Anything that wouldn't be a choice made of selfishness.
I also know people have a different opinion and I respect that. If you want to go to a respectable place and abort your baby that's none of my business. It's your body and you can do what you want. I will however bring up adoption and tell you my own adoption story and let you know you have other options. I will not however stand around an abortion clinic and tell you you're a murderer. I don't like abortion. I don't like the idea of denying a person the right to live no matter how unformed that person is.
Basically I like to believe I can care about everyone. My little "sister" (fiance's little sister) has a friend I don't particularly like. I find her annoying and attention seeking but I'll still give her advice and I don't like seeing her hurt. And I look at someone being pregnant as a being that may one day find their own love, hopes and dreams. And I don't think it's right to take away it's future to suit your own selfish needs because there's adoption where you don't have to take care or even want the child and you can find someone that will.
If you are old enough to have sex you should be mature enough to take care of your mistakes. I don't see this as a solution to your mistake but a way of avoiding responsibility.
If you have had an abortion I know it's hard I've heard the story's and I am NOT judging you. You had your reasons and I respect that (unless it's "I didn't want stretch marks"). I know there's guilt and shame and millions of other emotions I could NEVER understand and I admire your strength for having to deal with it all.
Basically:
1) Have the baby adopted
2) You're denying a being the right to a future
3) I don't judge pro-lifers or women who have had abortions
4) This is my view and I believe different opinions are great
5) Forcing other people to try to have the same opinion as you is not
Think of anyone who's influenced your life for the better that could be your child helping someone else. Your child could find the cure to cancer or be a future president or even just an awesome worker. Does it really matter? Whether they'd be important or not it's still a future life that will never be if aborted.
There's my view you're completely welcome to have your own.
Comment with your view and why. I love variety :3
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